Most of us were born and brought up in less then perfect situations.....unless you are the very lucky few.
As I have gotten older I can see how MY parents struggled at times with finance and general discipline and other stuff life threw at them.
Adoption in my opinion should short circuit the chance of poor or un prepared people bringing up children........by selecting people who have chosen to seek a child to give them a family.
This selection process should try to find the IDEAL for each child.....the ideal is a loving wife and husband in a stable relationship.......and not any couple who have chosen or been thrust into a relationship where children would not be the logical result.
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